• We need your support!

    We are currently struggling to cover the operational costs of Xtremepapers, as a result we might have to shut this website down. Please donate if we have helped you and help make a difference in other students' lives!
    Click here to Donate Now (View Announcement)

What type of girls and boys do you like? (and dislike)

Messages
34
Reaction score
38
Points
18
To be specific, the perfect girl to me has the following:
1. Is Cute
2. Has Long silky black hair
3. Is Smart
4. Has manners
5. Has self-confidence
6. Wouldn't never ever lose her belief in me and always be supportive
7. Loves me for me and nothing else

I wish that I would meet the girl of my dreams one day...
 
Messages
13
Reaction score
13
Points
3
I prefer guys who stick to thier words and dont under-go any sorta of changements in thier personality and behaviour towards a girl.
They should be the same guy the we're before a relationship and even after going into one.
Guys who don't loose respect for a girl that soon, value and treasure her forever.
 
Messages
1,322
Reaction score
3,527
Points
273
well IT IS STUPID TO THINK THAT THIS THREAD IS WRONG . Every person has some dream about his or her partner, that changes with time or one easily compromises on it and do not causes any issue. but it is cute.

I guess the only thing that matters in a guy is that how he sees you.The guy i will like will be based on love, care and respect shown to me. along with that i keep wishing God to make him a bit compatible, very loyal, moderately religious and one to value traditions. He should know the world well and must be smart. but well. time will tell what we all are going to get really.
 
Messages
803
Reaction score
1,287
Points
153
well IT IS STUPID TO THINK THAT THIS THREAD IS WRONG . Every person has some dream about his or her partner, that changes with time or one easily compromises on it and do not causes any issue. but it is cute.

I guess the only thing that matters in a guy is that how he sees you.The guy i will like will be based on love, care and respect shown to me. along with that i keep wishing God to make him a bit compatible, very loyal, moderately religious and one to value traditions. He should know the world well and must be smart. but well. time will tell what we all are going to get really.
waaaaaah nice planning :) for future madaam :D
 
Messages
44
Reaction score
23
Points
8
If you read this thread... it feels like ppl ordering pizza at a resturant..... "i want a guy with double cheese and chicken tikka topping..."
seriously..? shouldn't you guys be concenterating on studies...?. besides... whn looking for a spouse you see tonnes of things (especially their character and religion)... plus there is a reason why in Islam permission frm girl's guardian/father is required for marriage.. coz they can see things u can't... coz ur blinded by 'love'... anyone can fake and be humorous/pick stuff girl drops blah blah... for a while to get that girl.. but how do u know constantly he'd b like that..?

In my honest opinion, nowadays we are too engrossed in entertainment and image of a cool guy/girl we seee on TV... we fail to realize that reality is different.. m not saying it's no fun.. but m saying have level headed expectations... the stories u see in barbie or in movies are written by script writers to make u feel good.. but they delude u of reality... painting this false image in ur mind that is shattered whn u find that u dnt always find exactly the person u wanted... but still u can live happily with them in most cases given u follow the guidance that Allah S.W.T sent down.... for instance Prophet S.A.W taught us that a man should not hate his wife if he sees in her something that he dislikes, because if he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will like another which will make up for it. It was reported that the Prophet (S.A.W) said: “No believing man should hate a believing woman; if he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another.” (Reported by Muslim, 36).

But for now, I'd say hold ur horses... no need to think of such stuff whn ur not abt to get married.... when u start dreaming of that guy or girl.. the next step is u start looking for them... and bec ur a student who can't marry right now.. u'd say lemme be frnds with him/her and whn I can, I'll marry one day... sadly, you get hurt coz u'll soon see such relationships don't last long (whn the fun is gone the guy wd leave for some1 else)... there is a reason why Allah S.W.T told us to stay away frm them.... and u get hurt repeatedly...

www.youtube.com/watch?v=1veqkHNKtHM

Code:
 www.youtube.com/watch?v=1veqkHNKtHM
If you have different mind set then it is fine you do not need to interupt in every thread okey, scoot from ones that trouble you, you are trying to scold them so bad,
 
Messages
316
Reaction score
490
Points
103
vry
Well there is one advice from my side, i.e never make ideals, you are not living in utopia, where perfect beings live so its no point in making such ideals... n believe me this for ur own betterment cuz in the end if ur spouses are not up to your expectations you will end up crying and it will create problems for yourselves only... To live a happy and contented life, just trust your parents cuz they can better decide who is good for you...

One thing more that I have seen very common in guys and girls around is that they go for looks and physical appearance, tell me what will you do with the looks of a person if that person's character is bad?? Beauty just fades what remains is the character n personality! Holy prophet(SAW) said, " a women is normally sought as a wife for her wealth, beauty, nobility and piety, but choose a pious women and you will prosper. (Sahih Muslim)
And Imam Shafae said, " Do not love a person who doesn't love Allah, if he can leave Allah, he can leave you."


View attachment 18719
very trueee....
 
Top