How should we judge a person!

[waleed82]

Wouldn't disagree to that. Yet, that's how today's world works

so true!

 

[waleed82]

By way of talking of a person and dress up.

well what if his/her behavior is too bad !

 

[waleed82]

how about we don't judge at all?
be care-free, easy come easy go. love nobody and feel no pain x)

Well its like totally impossible to have no friends!
You need to have at least a friend to share your thinking ,chill out with him/her etc.!

 

[waleed82]

No. I think at some point in time, we all will teach our children how to judge people.

Security and self defence, sometimes.

APPRECIATED !

 

[waleed82]

Make him angry.

Have you ever tried that!

 

[robinhoodmustafa]

Judge a person by His actions and Language.

 

[khushbakhat malik]

Have you ever tried that!

well but it might really work as when a person is angry, they reflect many of the things which r usually hidden inside and so u can judge them better..

 

[robinhoodmustafa]

Hazrat Ali (R.A) Said : Do not judge a person only by one quality; do consider his other characteristics.

 

[khushbakhat malik]

Hazrat Ali (R.A) Said : Do not judge a person only by one quality; do consider his other characteristics.

so true...agreed...

 

[waleed82]

Hazrat Ali (R.A) Said : Do not judge a person only by one quality; do consider his other characteristics.

Highly APPRECIATED!

 

[DANGERBP]

you can judge a person by many ways .. but none would be true ~

 

[Sanzaid Sian]

The thing is simple, Only Allah can judge a person. Its beyond the scope of a human being to fully judge a person.

 

[YaZmin]

if A person is nice to u,but not nice to the waiter he indeed is not a nice person...well this judge apart of their character but the rest of it is only know by Allah (sw)

 

[Aqsa Saleem]

There's no set standard to judge anyone..be nice to the ones who're nice to you, and still be nice to the ones who are not nice to you. The rest is what Allah decides and Knows.

 

[AlphaCentauri]

Have you ever tried that!

Yes. And it turned out terrible. I either had to ignore it or lose a precious friend.

 

[7th heaven ;)]

The more u try to judge people.. the more miserable your OWN life becomes....TRUST ME...... U can't possibly judge a person you just get to know people ..... Maybe by spending some time with them....... And no i don't believe kids need to be told how to judge people (as u said in one of you previous comments), they'll definitely make mistakes by trusting wromg people... But will learn from their mistakes, one should let them take the path THEY choose to learn, one can't put in their OWN thoughts in a kid's mind ... This makes him rebellious !

 

[7th heaven ;)]

The more u try to judge people.. the more miserable your OWN life becomes....TRUST ME...... U can't possibly judge a person you just get to know people ..... Maybe by spending some time with them....... And no i don't believe kids need to be told how to judge people (as u said in one of you previous comments), they'll definitely make mistakes by trusting wromg people... But will learn from their mistakes, one should let them take the path THEY choose to learn, one can't put in their OWN thoughts in a kid's mind ... This makes him rebellious !

Oh sorry the comment i was talking about was by AlphaCentauri so all that children part is for her!

 

[Shizza Jalil]

To me, we shouldn't judge a person at all.
^Then again, that's just me.

 

[waleed82]

Guyz the best way to judge a person is to test him by first getting into a deep relationship with him !

 

[robinhoodmustafa]

''A friend cannot be considered a friend unless he is tested on three occasions: in time of need, behind your back and after your death''
Hazrat Ali (A.S)